People often ask if the glass is half empty or half full, but they never ask where the glass came from. Instead of simply being half empty or half full, curiosity urges us to question where the glass originated, the purpose of the glass, and even the contents of the liquid. As a naturally curious person, I’ve always found this trait fascinating, and now, I have a front row seat as my one-year-old twins begin their journey of curiosity.

My Curiosity  

Despite being naturally curious, I’ve often found myself hesitant to fully embrace it. I don’t give my curiosity permission to be loud and take up space. This reluctance has had its consequences – hindering my artistic expression, stifling my growth as a writer, and leading to moments of self-doubt. As a creative person, I’ve come to understand that curiosity and creativity are practically family. They are always hanging out together. So, when I notice my creativity feeling a bit lackluster, I know it’s time to reignite my curiosity.

And I want my children to succeed in ways that I found elusive. So, I’ve decided to reacquaint myself with curiosity. Reigniting my curiosity will specifically benefit my creative endeavors and personal growth, but more importantly, it will create a safe atmosphere of curiosity for my children.

Their Curiosity

I want my children to have autonomy. I don’t want to micromanage their curiosity.  Instead, I want to take a step back and allow their innate inquisitiveness to shine. Picture me as a supporting character in their adventures, empowering them to explore and discover the world on their terms, with unwavering support.

Returning to the cup analogy, as my children contemplate the fullness of the cup and perhaps its origins, I envision them daring to turn it upside down and intentionally spill its contents. Why? Because their curiosity is piqued, and I want them to revel in the exploration. And I want them to do it with confidence, secure in the knowledge that they won’t be scolded or told how to play. It’s about empowering them to embrace their curiosity boldly and fearlessly. Even if it means making a mess along the way.

Curiosity is more than just a trait — it’s a life skill that can unlock countless opportunities. It’s the key to generating fresh ideas, especially when everything else seems stale. And one’s curiosity levels often correlate with their ability to navigate ambiguity, a crucial skill in today’s fast-paced, ever-changing world. Some experts even suggest that cultivating continuous curiosity can empower individuals to thrive in an increasingly automated landscape.

Let them

I embarked on this quest at a local bookstore, where I picked up a copy of Simone Davies’s The Montessori Toddler. This book outlines seven principles that can help children become curious humans.

With summer on the horizon, I saw this as the perfect opportunity to not only deepen my understanding of Montessori philosophy but also to prioritize my own mental health and well-being. It’s fascinating that I get to be curious about their curiosity.

It’s like a delightful cycle of wonderment. So, I’m going to work through The Montessori Toddler’s seven principles for curious humans as my children’s curiosity grows.

Seven Principals for Curious Humans

1. Follow the child: let them lead.
2. Encourage hands-on learning: let them explore.
3. Include the child in daily life: let them be included.
4. Go slow: let them set their own pace.
5. Help me to help myself: let them be independent and responsible.
6. Encourage creativity: let them wonder.
7. Observe: let them show us.

Comfortably Curious

Stay-at-home parenthood can feel isolating at times, which is why I’ve decided to launch an ‘Exploring Montessori Series’ on my blog. It’s not just about sharing our journey — it’s also a way for me to hold myself accountable for any micromanaging tendencies.

It’s also a means for me to reconnect with curiosity in a way that feels familiar and comforting: through writing. Stepping outside of a comfort zone can be exhilarating, but there are days when it’s equally satisfying to embrace curiosity from a place of comfort. And that’s an important part of curiosity too – while pushing boundaries is vital for personal development, finding comfort in curiosity is just as essential for nurturing our innate sense of wonder.

So, y’all, consider this the kickoff post of the Exploring Montessori Series. Welcome!! So, here’s to a spring and summer filled with curiosity, exploration, and the joy of learning… and, hopefully, writing about it.

Sincerely,
Elizabeth
The Uncustomary Housewife